Hello. My name is Hideyuki Ikeuchi.

My profession is counsellor.

Problems with jumping to hasty conclusions when dealing with events and in relationships

When dealing with events or in relationships, we sometimes jump to hasty conclusions about what we need to check with the people involved and make decisions on our own when we want things to move quickly, get results or be resolved.

Also, in relationships, we may jump to hasty conclusions based on our own past experiences or the personality and tendencies of the other person, infer what they are thinking and thinking or doing, and judge their intentions and meanings before getting involved or reaching a conclusion.

As a result, problems may arise or you may have a dispute with the other person.

It is only when this happens that you realise that your judgements and conclusions, and the intentions and meanings of those involved that you have inferred, have jumped to hasty conclusions, and that you have made a mistake or misunderstood.

In this case, if you accept responsibility for the hasty conclusion leap and the problems it caused, and you can make a sincere apology and recover in good faith, then, with a few exceptions, the problem is resolved, things move on and the unpleasant emotional experience for both you and the parties involved is also resolved.

Leap to hasty conclusions, which we all may remember at some point

The problem with jumping to hasty conclusions is that you get stuck in your own world and stop thinking and pondering further about events and relationships in the context of the people involved.

By jumping to hasty conclusions, you can lose important opportunities and chances that you don’t want to lose, and important relationships that you don’t want to lose.

There is a lot that can be learned by not jumping to hasty conclusions, but by checking with the people involved and confirming any ambiguous knowledge or information.

There is also a lot that can be learned that can be useful for you and the parties involved

In order to avoid the various risks associated with jumping to hasty conclusions, it is important to check with the parties concerned and to confirm any ambiguous knowledge or information.

If you find yourself jumping to hasty conclusions, check immediately, apologise to the necessary parties and work with or coordinate with the parties involved.

Written by Counsellor Hideyuki Ikeuchi
Translated with DeepL

original Japanese text　↓↓↓

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